Save a Horse, Ride a Cal-Boy…

I am only writing about what happened tonight because I don’t ever want to forget it. I know that many of you may sit in judgement because of what I am about to write, I am OK with that.

I have always been very open sexually with my children. From a young age, if they had a question about something sexually, I made it a point to answer their question directly and not give them a vague answer(I was gonna say beat around the bush, but then I realized that sounded so wrong).

When they were younger, they would kinda blush and giggle, but it was obvious that their question was getting answered.

Now that they are pre-teens and teenagers, I have to say our disscussions have become much more open and honest, which leads to great talks, and really funny ones, like the one we had tonight.

So, a popular artist named Lady Gaga has a new song called “Love Game” out. The video is here if you want to hear it.

The very first part of the video goes like this:

Lets have some fun

This beat is sick

I want to take a ride on your disco stick

So we are on the way to church of all places, and we are discussing this song, and more specifically what the term “disco stick” actually is.

My 11 year old son pipes up from the back seat and asks “Do girls actually ride on boys?”

I respond honestly, “Yes honey, that is what she is talking about in this song, about a girl being on top riding the boy’s penis”

My son, without any shame yells at the top of his lungs:

“YEEEEEEEE-HAAAAWWW”

We all started laughing so hard. It was priceless and something I never want to forget.

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4 Responses

  1. […] started looking at my blog. Perhaps it was the post about my son and his budding sexuality that got them upset. Once again, I am not ashamed that I have taught my children honestly and […]

  2. Hehehe that is totally a conversation we have had. Only my sons twelve year old friend claimed to know where the “spot” is. That opened a whole can of worms and conversation. Good thing I was a little tipsy at the time hehe.

  3. ROFL – reminds me of some conversations I’ve had with my eldest.

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